Taking a lesson from Judah Macabee, and the story of Hanukah, we talk about just the right level of heroism needed. If we do not inculcate faith and work and stick-to-itiveness, our children will becoming disempowered wastlings. If we dollop only this they may become discouraged or exasperated. We do not need heroism based on Superman, but based on reality like Judah Macabee. I trust this will bless you.
Also, I give you an opportunity to sow into orphans in poor country,that they might be fed and educated. It will bless you to help them.
Blessings upon you and your children at this holiday time.